Husband Woe's (2)- Rough start, nice finish

Well over the weekend, we had a rough start with intimate side of our relationship. First night he went all day playing a game on his computer. Several times me mentioning that I want his attention after dinner. When dinner ended, he kept right on playing his game, so I tried to grab his attention. Sitting bare bottom on his back as he laid on his belly playing his game. This seemed to have no affect, so I shyly suggested doing his kink. He didn't refuse, but yet seemed very nonchalant about the whole thing and kept right on playing his game. He did stop playing his game, long enough for us to watch a movie together, but then decided at 2 in the morning, he hadn't had enough of his game. He reached for his mouse, and I tried to grab it from him, but he just got upset with me. So I thought 'forget it', turned over and tried to go to bed. He didn't stay on his game long, and was laying close and rubbing my butt, while I tried hard to ignore him. He didn't seem to react to me being upset, so I sat up abruptly letting him know something was wrong. He asked what the matter was, and I replied "you". Then I went on to explain how he had been ignoring me, and again making feel as if he is not attracted to me. He got mad and stormed out of the room. Went to the living room and sat on the sofa in the dark.

I was so upset, Thinking, why would he react this way, when he's the one who hurt me. Eventually I swallowed my pride and went out to talk to him. He had fallen asleep!!! Now I know this was after three in the morning, but it's the worst thing you can do in my opinion. Fall asleep while your significant other is terribly hurt or upset, especially when you are the cause of it. So I grabbed my keys and left. Really I just wanted to get out of the house to have a good cry and scream a little, without any witnesses. I was gone for less then 20 minutes, and was surprised to see that he had gone out looking for me. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't show very many feelings of caring, so for him to leave and look for me was a pleasant surprise, and calmed me down right away.

We went back to the bedroom and talked, he finally started to understand how he had made me feel, and felt bad about choosing his game over me. We did end up getting intimate, with a tiny bit of his kink play. The next night went well, with him staying away from his game and giving me a lot of his time. We were intimate again, which is surprising seeing as usually at least three days go in between if not a lot longer. I'm wondering as I sit here if I can convince him to go for three nights in a row?? I'm doubtful, but hopeful at the same time.